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2014-03-24T17:44:12.980Z

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2014-03-21T11:40:19.430Z

Wow...reading that, I almost felt like I wrote it! I know what you're going through. My husband is also a doctor. I am 29 and he is 40. We've been married 5 years. I've always had a very high sex drive. I'd be perfectly happy doing it every day, even more! We used to fight about it, and he's even asked me to "stop pressuring him." That really hurt my feelings, and made me feel unattractive (even though, like you, I knew I wasn't. I was young, skinny, beautiful, outgoing, and fun).

Well, as we've been married longer, I've discovered that his drive waxes and wanes. When he was super busy, he was tired, or just didn't think about it. But then when we have time to spend together, it's like we're dating again. It's nothing I do differently- although I keep in shape and dress well.

I guess what really changed what all in me. I went back to school, I started working out, I hang out with my girl friends more. In other words, I'm doing more to take care of myself. I told him I didn't have the time to work anymore (I'm a nurse), and I quit my job, so now I have time to shop and do my makeup and everything. I stopped bugging him, and I let him initiate it every time now. Sometimes that's a couple of times a week...sometimes a couple of times a month. I do still wish it was more, but I am ok with it. I don't feel that empty anxiety and frustration anymore.

There is one book that comes to mind that may help you get what you want. I don't remember the author, but it's called The Surrendered Wife. The two most important phrases I've learned to use are "I miss you," and "I want." (Notice that's not "I think I should have," or "I need.") Those phrases in particular help you communicate your thoughts without putting demands on him that he might resent. It's a great book. I really hope you read it.

It sounds like you have a good man, who is proud of being good at his job. It sounds like you both lead pretty busy, stressful lives. I think if you can find a way to have more time for yourself, you will also be able to think more in terms of what you can do for him, instead of what he isn't doing for you. This subtle change may give you that welcoming, restful aura that he can't wait to get home to.

Edit: Just had to add...don't listen to the other people on here- they are idiots. Lingerie doesn't always work, and it's really awful when you spend two hours getting all dressed up and what he really wants to do is unwind from a 14 hour day and go to sleep. Cosmo is a completely stupid magazine for people living in a fantasy world. Finally...there are very few cute nurses- most are fat, and unappealing anyway (I've worked in hospitals and around doctors for 7 years now). Besides, in a busy hospital, most people are there to do their job, and want to be seen as professionals. He obviously fell in love with you and married you for a reason. I'm sure he is proud of you and wants to make you happy. It probably just feels good to be needed so much at work. Being a doctor is more than just a job- it's a profession, a calling, a passion. But most good men will also be willing to make changes in order to keep their life in balance and make their princess happy. It just needs to be presented to him properly. :)

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