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Permalink Reply by Dr Jurgens Peters on June 13, 2008 at 1:42pm

i agree totally.....Sex is Holy.
Sex is an intense unification of two peoples bodies, souls and spirits.
With sex, you cover each other's nakedness!Isn't that exactly what God did on the cross....you know, for our sins? .......................So to sum it up......No sex before marriage.....

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Permalink Reply by DOCSANDS on June 13, 2008 at 9:37pm

I think in this free world we should leave this decision to adults to decide on their own. Our religion forbids it, young blood craves it. Everybody cannot be rational when it involves sex, because many of these decisions are not taken in a rational or logical frame of mind. In short all adults should decide for themselves whether to indulge or not.

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Permalink Reply by ROHAN on June 13, 2008 at 9:59pm

I feel assuming a moral highground is unfair.To be realistic we should be discouraging promiscuicity and encouraging sex without transmission of veneral disease.We should promote and protect the choices of people rather that imposing opinions.If we start poising with respect to moral sexual conduct where do we stop? We shall soon be judgemental about homosexuals? prostitution? We have to protect the meek taking a stance against child abuse that is pro liberalistic, morally and ethically apt.But condeming personal choice within the purview of logical law I condemn.TO SERVE AND PROTECT AND TO BE UNBIASED AND NON JUDGEMENTAL IS MY REQUEST

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Permalink Reply by rajani on June 25, 2008 at 9:33pm

I agree with Rohan,Abhishek and Anu...when they say ...sex is a NEED. It is a natural act,driven by the oldest part of the brain. it has to be respected and not taken as something forbidden. many Indians are hypocrites..this is a well known fact..and this is the reason that we still even talk about sex affecting society. Yes..it does affect society...in circumstances where the act of intercourse is taken as that for fun..or as a style statement..as it is happening in USA,UK..and may be the rest of the developed countries. Am sure,India is also not far behind even in teenage sex..its just the fact that Indians are good at hiding these things.Society does get affected by these kind of unnatural acts..rather than premarital.
Marriage is something altogether different.I think relating premarital sexual status has found its origins with people who were against society in general!!!

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Permalink Reply by Radhakrishnan on June 26, 2008 at 7:16am

good comment. of course sex is a need.....coz.....man is a social animal.......definitely..... we have something more than other animals like ........u know wt i mean

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Permalink Reply by abhishek on June 19, 2008 at 12:33pm

as par n preventive medicine written by PARK. he mentioned sex as a primary need.dere z nothing so called pre or post marital....its our need n it depends whn we feel our need to live happily.no one should be judgemental in their view.becoz feelings, requirements,happiness these all things r beyond gud n bad... do watever u wanna 2 do till it z nt going 2 hurt any one..it doesnt mean u should nt do sex becoz a third person z thinking tht pre or watever marital sex z nt good...let him 2 think in his own way...u do wat u think n be happy..but whnever u do sex be sure abt safety-USE CONDOM..n enjoy ur act.

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Permalink Reply by Anu on June 19, 2008 at 3:16pm

wat abt pple who live in defacto relationships....they arent technically married but are in a full bound relationship....It boils down to culture...in most cultures, its forbidden (and for a good reason too....its to ensure ur in a secure relationship and reduces promiscuosity)...in other areas it is culture to have premarital sex. In some places ur a rather rare example if you havent engaged in sexual activity by the age of 20 and in others you've broken all the rules by even thinkin about it....

I think rather than focussin on worryin abt what adults do before or after marriage..we should let them decide what they want but be more worried about young teenagers and now even junior high schoolers who are engagin in such behaviour jus for the sake of bein 'popular'....its a big concern where once 13 year olds would get all woozy thinkin about holdin a girls hand, now they're countin the number of girls they've slept with! thattt needs attention ...

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Permalink Reply by Roby on June 19, 2008 at 4:04pm

well theres not even a choice to the answer. definitely its affects the society on the whole. sex is not the mere physical indulgence or lust satiation. it was creatd by God witha purpose of procreation and not for cheap orgy.all fruits taste best only when the time is ripe. the fact that even teenagers are finding it comfortable and in fact a neccesity to stay in fashion reflects on the changing levels of moral tolerance in todays world. we cannot change the world alone BUT just because the river flows downhill doesnot mean you to have to go down. you can make a difference in your life by preserving the sanctity of the institution of marriage by abstaining from premarital indulgences . it will save you from being guilty and being a spent force ,, heads above the rest . keep resisting.

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Permalink Reply by Anu on June 19, 2008 at 4:33pm

yeh but what do u say to a 15 year old girl presenting to clinic with her 2nd pregnancy wantin a termination.....sure u wud preach safe sex practices and go on about what contraception she is on..but dont u think she wouldve benefitted if she got some sort of education on when it is right to have sex when she was 13? i dont knw then rises the argument of maturity...with pple reachin maturity levels at a younger age, can u determine if they are ready for sexual practice? boils down to personal needs/wants/requirments......bahhh

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Permalink Reply by arvind on June 19, 2008 at 9:53pm

my goodness dude .. i told u v have sth in common tis s almost the same kind of reply wich i wd have given anyway i had to modify my words after readin ur reply .. attitude isnt it lols ..

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Permalink Reply by VIKAS KHANNA on June 19, 2008 at 4:33pm

marriage is an otcome of demand of security and status quo of soceity.
pre-marital sex and promiscuity is a threat to the very foundation of soceity, which has floated concept of morality for its existance.

incest, extra marital ,pre marital or marital sex is essentialy the same, its the same pleasure movement of the self.

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Permalink Reply by Leilani T. Hirang on June 19, 2008 at 5:09pm

premarital sex destroys the sanctity of marriage.....we must fight against any forbidden forms of love.....NO to premarital.....YES to God's Holy will on the sanctity of marriage....God bless...

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