see........according to elders....after few years it doesnt really matter how u got married..........be it love or arranged........once u have worn the ring....no one can prevent suffering......lolzzzz
an arranged marriage,,,n then loving ur wife...i think a love marriage is like eating a sugarcane from bottom upwards,,,the sweetness decreases,while an arranged marriage is from above downwards,,take ur pick.
marraige involves a lot of adjustment.so love or arranged...wat maters is how u go about it.
if both are willing to make it succeed the success ratio can be favorable in both the cases.
hi friends,
dont u think love and marriage r opposite words??!!!
on serious note, more than the question of love or arranged marriage, what is important is to understand other person properly, (which sometime takes years!), and it is about adjustments,about valueing the relationship. It is more about Hum than U and Me!
Obviously, love is essential ingredient for any relationship.
So whether it is love or arranged marriage, it is important that we strive to keep love alive in it.
And there is one interesting saying--
`In any marriage more than one week old, there r grounds for divorce; the trick is to find and keep on finding grounds for marriage !`
Just for record stats. world wide have proved that failure rate is more in love marriage.